How does one really know when one in love.......

One thinks that when one has a couple that is always seen together and are always happy to see one another one thinks that they must be in love but to what extent? The funny thing is one will never know if the couple is truly in love until shit hits the fan and that relationship is thrown into hell itself. only then does one watch in amazement at the squirming around like a lizard with a severed tail not knowing what has happened to it. when this happens the relationship is thrown into chaos and the aftermath determines the outcome of the relationship mainly do to the fact that during this process the two are tested on how much crap they can put up with. one may think this can be an easy task and might actually go through it and survive with there loved one only to figure out that the relationship will still end. what I'm trying to say out of all this is that even when one does go through the ultimate test of love one may soon realize that love is unpredictable because as i learned first hand, love is never what it seems to be. I think the funniest thing out of all this is that one may have read this whole blog just to find that there really no way to know if it is true love or not just that the couple must have faith in one another and hope that it lasts.